It began in India with much of my sense of identity, belonging and purpose clearly defined by my cultural background. A bubble of comfort that I assumed life to always be.
But very quickly I found myself in a whirlwind of emotional chaos.
This chaos enthusiastically invited me on a journey that shattered every concept of foundation that I had grown accustomed to, nudging me to fully embrace the (he)art of letting go.
For a very long time, I believed that loss was something that happened to those unfortunate, the underdogs, unworthy of love from the Universe itself. This belief dictated much of my life, paralysing me with incremental fear after each loss I experienced, big and small.
Fortunately, this fear led me on a path of self-discovery, healing and a deeper understanding of a spiritual way of life from a very young age. By no means is this journey of self-inquiry, surrender and evolution complete.
But today, I consider myself blessed by life, for blatantly reminding me of my own mortality by continuously providing me with unlimited opportunities to explore loss on various levels of consciousness while I am still alive.
By learning to embrace the gifts that life transitions bring, I feel empowered to continue to live my life from a place of gratitude and humility.
Free therapy training from life itself, as one of my teachers always reminds me.
At nine, a year-long threat to my physical life by a family member not only exposed me to the lower vibrational expression of human emotions but was also my very first introduction to the powerful energetic life force that lives and breathes through me, and us all.
At fifteen, my father passed away leaving me to grieve deeply the loss of his presence as he provided incredible safety, security and spiritual wisdom I had grown accustomed to. This experience led me to further explore the energy of love beyond the physical realm of our existence.
At twenty-two, I left India to move to New Zealand on my own, strongly guided by my intuition. I had no logical explanation for choosing to leave my mother, a single parent to an only child, to care for herself. The inner call was unfathomable guiding me to set an intention to find a deeper sense of belonging, one that was not solely defined by any culture, tradition or society.
At twenty-nine, when our entire home in India was robbed by a relative, I was thrust to feel the pain of materialistic loss and was humbly shown to remain open to the resilient human heart and the richness of intangible wealth that is forever, abundantly available within it.
At thirty, my mother passed away leaving me orphaned. As an only child, I floated around for a few years after feeling like an unwanted feather, nowhere to return, go or be. This transition crushed every false concept of belonging, identity and purpose that society teaches to find safety within, to allow a rebirth of a new way of relating to myself and others.
At thirty-four, I finally released the core pain of wanting to end my life and just live because I was still breathing. This gave birth to a full-hearted intention to practice, implement and teach the powerful wisdom that lies within each and every loss we experience, individually and collectively. It is this wisdom that has taught me to receive all transitions in life openly with a whole lot of faith and less fear.
Life and Death are two sides of the same coin.
An integral part of our make and one cannot exist without the other.
Loss a humble reminder of death and graceful endings.
Abundance a generous reminder of life and new beginnings.
The ultimate reality is that all endings we experience in our waking life are a gentle yet powerful reminder of our own mortality.
It is an extremely vital transition of life that we so often refuse to face, due to lack of awareness, support and a willingness to acknowledge the valuable gifts that lie in honouring our endings.
We have such a huge unlimited potential to experience all the wonderful opportunities that life has in store for us.
And the fear of loss is what limits our capacity to engage with all aspects of our human expression to it’s full capacity.
Much of my teachings is based on my dedicated awakening to awareness itself and building on my intuitive skills through my life experiences.
But I also strongly believe in the integration of the logical mind and the intuitive heart, so you will find my professional qualifications a delightful blend of both.
Coaching Certification from the Institute of Executive Coaching and Leadership (IECL), Certification in Emotional Intelligence, Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Diploma in Clinical Hypnotherapy, Reiki Level 1 and 2, and a dash of astrological counselling are tools that I use to help provide structure within the context of the ever-changing nature of feelings and emotions.
I have also been actively engaged in practising and teaching meditation and mindfulness techniques for more than twelve years.
Pavitra has the ability to tune into your innermost needs, encouraging you to honour any loss experienced, let go of the fear and live a life in alignment with your intuition. Since being mentored by Pavitra, I genuinely feel I have been blessed with a new direction in life and I have started to value myself. I feel so much peace within and can make any major life decisions with ease.
Any loss I experienced used to cause me heartbreak. Pavitra helped me recognise that within very loss, something new and beautiful was being birthed. I now know how to care for myself when I experience any loss. I could not have gotten through the last year without Pavitra’s support, she has been my strength. And I would definitely recommend Pavitra to anyone who is dealing with any life transitions, big or small.
Highly recommend Pavitra to anyone who wants to discover their potential, get clearer with their direction in life. Pavitra has unique style and plenty of knowledge and wisdom to help you get through the trickiest of challenges.
Pavitra has an amazing ability to connect with people and make them feel at ease. I have never known anybody else who is as good at emotionally connecting with you on a deep level. Through my time with Pavitra, I have learnt how to better see, acknowledge, communicate and understand my feelings. She has helped me to grow as a person and to live an emotionally richer life.
Pavitra is sensitive, very intuitive and deeply compassionate. Heart centred and a soul on a mission to serve humanity. I would highly recommend her genuine services for anyone stumbling along life's pathway.
When Pavitra talks with you, she really gives her full attention, engaging with, valuing and respecting every aspect that is shared. She does not judge, is empathetic and mixes a very positive view of human capability with encouragement and gentle humour. I always come out of my interactions with Pavitra feeling lighter and brighter, and more confident that my goals are well within reach.
When I first met Pavitra I felt instantly connected to her. Pavitra has a very positive vibe and an upbeat personality. Pavitra provided me with a framework to help identify the changes I needed to make in my life as I was learning to settle into my new life in a new country. Pavitra has enabled me to transform my life in an optimistic way and I will be forever grateful. I come away from my interactions with Pavitra feeling excited about life. I'm very lucky to have found her.
Pavitra has had a huge impact in my life. Pavitra has helped me explore many of my hidden talents which has allowed me to pursue my personal goals. Pavitra creates a beautiful space for heart to heart conversations. She is genuine, gentle, supportive, compassionate and a generous person. I really admire her positive attitude towards life.
Pavitra has the gift to understand what it takes to support you on your journey as she leads by her example. By breaking out of India as a young woman to discover what the world has to offer, she truly understands how alone we can feel at times during a major transition and how important it is to have the right mentor in your life to help you through those hard times. She is brave and is truly heart driven with a passion and talent for helping people. Pavitra will not only listen to what it is that you need but also help you get the guidance that you deserve and create a life that is worth living.